Relationship fortification:
A simple framework for having honest conversations to help your relationship soar
What's this about?
Romantic relationships have the potential to deeply enrich our lives. They can be a source of joy, companionship, comfort, security, support, adventure, and so much more.
But whenever you bring two individual lives together, challenges are inevitable. Everyone has different upbringings, experiences, traumas, etc. Stuff comes up.
Relationship fortification provides a versatile structure for working through any kinds of challenges in your relationship.
Fortification can help address just about anything
Communication
Jealousy
Family dynamics
Sex
Pet Peeves
Child-rearing
Finances
Division of labor
Does it work?
We've used this framework for years, shared with friends & family, and run large-scale workshops.
We even ran an informal pilot test, where couples experimented with fortification for 2 months.
Here's what people said after trying.
Names altered for confidentiality
Ishmael C.
“If there was only one tool I could use to work on my relationship, this would be it."
-Hoboken, NJ
Malika U.
"We recognized and went deeper into what triggers us, to avoid further escalation. We started to understand how can we see the problem objectively."
-Brooklyn, NY
Persephone M.
"The fact that I thought mindfully about how to share my observations and thoughts prior to the session, made me feel more comfortable and confident not to hurt my partner by using the right words"
-Mountain View, CA
How is your relationship right now?
No matter how long you've been together, or how things are going, fortification has something to offer.
STELLAR
Our relationship is one of the strongest that we've seen →
Fortification helps:
SUSTAIN
Keep the magic alive and preempt challenges
SOLID
It's good: we have some challenges, but nothing out-of-the-ordinary or insurmountable →
Fortification helps:
OPTIMIZE
Make adjustments and improvements to go from 'good' to 'great'
STRUGGLING
We have significant challenges that aren't improving. Our relationship is often a source of stress →
Fortification helps:
REBUILD
Address longstanding difficulties, identify the path forward, and work toward it together
The best part?
It's free.
You might be wondering: 'what's the catch?' There isn't one.
Relationship fortification has helped us and our loved ones a lot. We simply want to share, hoping it offers as much value to you as it has to us.
We're working on a short manual that you'll be able to buy soon, but it's not essential. This site covers everything you need to give fortification a try. Subscribe to our mailing list and we'll notify you as soon as the manual is available!
